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Less Than a Week Until baby # 3!! How I'm Feeling 39 weeks 🥴😍
Less Than a Week Until baby # 3 ... How I'm Feeling 🥴😍
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I went from thinking I'd go early with my sister to WANTING to go to my due date to soak up some extra time with my family before we add another.
I was also not in the right headspace for labor but WE HAVE ARRIVED!!
As an extrovert I want to get out and DO ALL THE THINGS. But my body has been pumping the breaks for me to chiiiiiill so I've also been leaning into that and trying to get to bed on time.
The last few weeks are such a wild ride and complete mind game.
SO HERE WE GO!!
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00:00 Hey Shayla Introduction
00:32 Positive Motherhood Mindset
01:08 I wasn't ready for labor (hypnobabies)
01:48 My sister is also due any day!
02:06 I had WORK I needed to get done before baby arrived
02:38 NOW I want to soak up my kids before baby comes!
03:55 The extrovert in me loves to be busy!
05:07 OVERWHELMED
05:44 We had the house deep cleaned!!
05:57 Trying to keep track of everyone's schedule
06:13 What I've done to prepare
07:10 I have gone to my due date with both
07:35 My symptoms in late pregnancy
08:12 I LOVED having Spring babies
08:43 Sleep anxiety
09:12 The unknowns are stressing me out
09:42 guilt.
10:05 Maternity leave
10:30 Advice welcome
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Regrets? 5 things I'll change with baby # 3
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3rd baby: 5 things I'll do differently (and the same) Check out up to 20% off Haakaa's Prime Day sale on Amazon July 16th & 17th, 2024 www.amazon.com/dp/B08PTQSKPT? #haakaa #primedaydeals What fruit is baby this week? You mean how many weeks am I? Man, the experience with baby # 1 vs baby # 3 is night and day. I think mostly because I have 2 other humans to keep alive that I don't just get to f...
1st month: Baby Doesn’t Need Anything… MOM DOES!
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GET THESE FOR AFTER BABY IS BORN!! Thanks to LMNT for sponsoring this video! Head to DrinkLMNT.com/HEYSHAYLA to get your free sample pack with any purchase! We go over a few different categories here: Babies don't need much the first month... mom does. Nourishment: I will forever recommend the book "The First 40 Days" it's a great reminder to CHILL the first 40 days and has awesome nourishing r...
Minimal: What I Packed in my Hospital Bag (for the 3rd baby)
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The CHILLEST "What I Packed in my 3rd Hospital Bag" VIDEO EVER Thanks to LMNT for sponsoring this video! Head to DrinkLMNT.com/HEYSHAYLA to get your free sample pack with any purchase. To be honest, I have no idea why the "What I packed in my Hospital Bag" videos exist... I think people tend to bring way to much stuff. Which is why I felt like I needed to make a CHILL "what I packed in my 3rd h...
BEST Baby Shower Ideas (to REALLY help the new mom) 2024
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Watch BEFORE your Baby Shower: BEST IDEAS EVER with biggest impact!! Start your baby registry here: heyshayla.com/babylist This video is Sponsored by Baby List (the best baby registry site!) I used it 4 years ago with Aliya and again before my 2nd, and this is why: 1. You can link ANYTHING (helloooo small businesses!) 2. Eco Friendly Shipping: You can bundle the boxes 3. Free Welcome Box When y...
Unique Baby Girl & Boy Names + Things to Consider (from a crunchy mom)
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Baby Names from a Crunchy Mom Things to Consider Here are my best tips for naming your baby! 1. If you're trying to decide between 5 different spellings, no one will spell it right. 2. Go to the hospital with a few names. 3. Consider the initials 4. 1st, Middle and Last name have different syllables 5. Say baby's name through each life event 6. Does it fit with your other kids names? Look up na...
Partner Resentment With Kids... #motherhoodmindset
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Partner Resentment: MUST WATCH BEFORE your next baby! #motherhoodmindset Motherhood Mindset Flip Book Shirts: https:/heyshayla.com/shop There were a few basic things I needed to know before my baby came. 1. Mom's (or one person in a same sex marriage) are hardwired to wake up to the baby... the other one isn't. 2. One tired parent is better than 2 3. Your brain CHANGES when you become a mother....
3rd Baby: How We Decided & Major Factors To Consider!
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3rd Baby: How We Decided & Major Factors To Consider!
My second just turned 2... what I wish I knew a year ago!
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My second just turned 2... what I wish I knew a year ago!
Tips For Stay at Home Moms... How to Stay Sane #motherhoodmindset + more!
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Tips For Stay at Home Moms... How to Stay Sane #motherhoodmindset more!
Stop scrolling and get your mind right!! Price drop on Heyshayla.com/SHOP
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Stop scrolling and get your mind right!! Price drop on Heyshayla.com/SHOP
Third Pregnancy DIFFERENCES.... any guesses on gender?
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Third Pregnancy DIFFERENCES.... any guesses on gender?
Traveling with TODDLERS To HAWAII? We Just Got Back!
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Traveling with TODDLERS To HAWAII? We Just Got Back!
Having A 3rd Baby: MY BIGGEST FEARS 🥵 #thirdbaby
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Having A 3rd Baby: MY BIGGEST FEARS 🥵 #thirdbaby
Thought Process of Bringing Two Toddlers to Hawaii
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Thought Process of Bringing Two Toddlers to Hawaii
The Truth About Working Out During 3rd Pregnancy 😅
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The Truth About Working Out During 3rd Pregnancy 😅
Potty Training Tips From A Mom Of Two: Potty Trained Before 2!
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Potty Training Tips From A Mom Of Two: Potty Trained Before 2!
What I Regret About Our Trip to Arizona - How Are We *REALLY* Doing?
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What I Regret About Our Trip to Arizona - How Are We *REALLY* Doing?
How to ACTUALLY Get Siblings to Stop Fighting |12 Tips
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How to ACTUALLY Get Siblings to Stop Fighting |12 Tips
I Thought I Was Pregnant With TWINS... AGAIN!! Signs You Are You're Pregnant With Twins
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I Thought I Was Pregnant With TWINS... AGAIN!! Signs You Are You're Pregnant With Twins
Surviving The First Trimester With 2 Kids: 13 Essential Tips
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Surviving The First Trimester With 2 Kids: 13 Essential Tips
Surprising My Husband With The News | Pregnant with #3
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Surprising My Husband With The News | Pregnant with #3
Successful Strategies To Wean Our Toddler From Nursing After FAILING
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Successful Strategies To Wean Our Toddler From Nursing After FAILING
BEGINNER Declutter with me - EASIEST place to start
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BEGINNER Declutter with me - EASIEST place to start
My Girls need to Know THIS About Motherhood
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My Girls need to Know THIS About Motherhood
Stop complaining about your husband
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Stop complaining about your husband
MY 2024 GOALS + goal ideas for stay at home moms
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MY 2024 GOALS goal ideas for stay at home moms
Weaning my 2nd at 18 months is NOTHING like my 1st
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Weaning my 2nd at 18 months is NOTHING like my 1st
I've made some big changes...
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I've made some big changes...
I HATED OUR HOUSE, until I did this... | Valencia Artisan Leather L-Shape Sofa
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I HATED OUR HOUSE, until I did this... | Valencia Artisan Leather L-Shape Sofa

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  • @rossdosan2383
    @rossdosan2383 14 годин тому

    I saw this video which is very informative, But i just add on somethings about this. I just read the Nursery Furniture Checklist blog on Babymore, and it was fantastic! The guide was thorough and easy to follow, making it so much easier to know exactly what I need for my baby's nursery. It had great tips on selecting quality furniture and creating a safe, comfortable space. Thank you, Babymore, for such an informative and helpful blog. if you wanna get more information about nursery check list you should go and visit babymore.

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela 15 годин тому

    I love your night weaning videos even though we're not ready to do that yet. Please check out the ergopouch portable bassinet! I wish I had it but we had a make do when we visited my husband's family in Bangladesh. Perfect for preventing pets and insects coming to baby.❤

  • @Theslowestmarathoner
    @Theslowestmarathoner 19 годин тому

    I always wanted 4 or 5. My compromise number is 3. But it took us two years to get pregnant with a healthy second baby so I think number 3 is impossible at this point.

  • @BreakfastDragon
    @BreakfastDragon День тому

    I am 38 weeks and 2 days with my second. 3cm and 60% effaced! Doing everything I can!

  • @RahmaChourou
    @RahmaChourou День тому

    Ftm..and I'm honestly confused.. my 5 month old baby seems to need a lot of help to sleep. As in it takes me 2 hours to put her to bed at night and during the day we only do contact naps... she just doesn't spontaneously sleep.ever. and she gets cranky when overtired. So am I supposed to just not spend 2 hours "helping her sleep"?. Did I hear that right?

  • @priyadevi2001
    @priyadevi2001 День тому

    I wish I watched this video before I had my baby lol so helpful.. thank you for the video ❤

  • @1027vvergara
    @1027vvergara День тому

    Ugh the bangs cowlick bc same. I cant wait for the post partum videos 💕💕💕 i hope ure well

  • @marybethbyers913
    @marybethbyers913 2 дні тому

    Curb walking threw my pelvis out of alignment sadly. I did the Myers circuit twice and baby did engage better, but no contractions. I subbed curb walking for the chair move the second time, and it so much easier on my body! Currently 40+4 and I've tried everything.

  • @taresabriles7224
    @taresabriles7224 2 дні тому

    Bed sharing id wait until 2

  • @nicollettesingleton444
    @nicollettesingleton444 2 дні тому

    I FEEL the travel. We are a family of 4 who travel a lot, and I travel without my husband a good bit too. Handling 2 kids by myself while traveling is pretty manageable and they are getting older and more self-sufficient. I keep thinking of that 3rd though and feel like I may regret it when I'm old, so who the hell knows what I will do. My youngest is 3.5 and I never wanted an age gap bigger than 3 years but here we are. I feel I go a little manic about figuring out to go for a 3rd or not. All that to say, I enjoy reading these comments from people who stopped and people who didn't.

  • @thejournalingjourney
    @thejournalingjourney 3 дні тому

    Shayla we are in such similar boats! I'm currently 9 days from my due date. I'm pregnant with my 3rd. I have 2 girls and this baby is a boy. I've spent all of August prepping all the things and nesting. Today I had someone deep clean my house. I finished my last few "to-dos" today before baby comes. Now I'm ready for baby to come any time. :)

  • @Millennial-Fleury
    @Millennial-Fleury 3 дні тому

    I just want to mention about what I do for EC and for cleaning. I have tile, so clean up isn't an option for me.. But i use undies for my 2.5 year old since he was months old, but i am just switching to cloth diapers at night instead of disposables. I know a lot of people complain about the smell, so for anyone having a problem with that, try to rinse them any time they get anything in them and if you don't rinse them right away, then rinse them before you toss them in the washer. I found that helped dramatically.

  • @maki9396
    @maki9396 3 дні тому

    I feel like you'd be fun to have coffee with cause you made this serious topic funny.

  • @kimb9287
    @kimb9287 3 дні тому

    Total random suggestion for the fall/winter activities!! Go to your local mall!! Even if the mall is practically dead, go! Warm space for the kids to run around is gold lol

  • @kimb9287
    @kimb9287 3 дні тому

    Highly recommend a floor bed!! My oldest was also sleep trained but literally stopped sleeping when he turned 2. So now, he starts off in his room then comes in freely to his crib mattress on the floor thats on my side. My youngest, almost 2, was a major cosleeper but now mostly sleeps in his bed, sometimes coming into our bed. Im hoping to introduce him to a floor bed with his brother if we have a third, so they can cosleep and i can cosleep with the baby.

  • @kimb9287
    @kimb9287 3 дні тому

    A lot of what influences my inconsistent feelings on having a 3rd is (well finances and mental sanity) other family members opinions. My MIL thinks we should have only had 1, although she adores my 2nd, but it stings. My dad thinks we'll end up in financial ruin if we have another. So not having family's support is really really rough and weighing down this decision.

  • @kimb9287
    @kimb9287 3 дні тому

    I dont why, but when you said, "im good to pause," it resonated with me so much. I, too, change my mind on a 3rd, daily. Ive had people say, "well just wait. Dont make a decision yet. You have time..." But I dont want to "wait." Waiting feels like limbo. But pausing.... feels more like a decision. So thank you for that lol

  • @vanijain4323
    @vanijain4323 4 дні тому

    Hey Shayla! I am considering night weaning my 12 month old. Will wait a month before we try it out! Hearing about your experience is super helpful. My lo wakes up every hour or so for a suckle and then goes back to sleep. I am afraid that after night weaning he won’t have the boob to go back to sleep and if he continues waking up, do they easily go back to sleep with comforting? And what comforting mechanisms do you use?

  • @brittanydaigle1634
    @brittanydaigle1634 5 днів тому

    Please please help me! I'm expecting a daughter in December and we LOVE the name Peach. Do you think it's an acceptable name? My fiance is completely on board! Suggestions for 2 middle names? We both have 2 middle names so we want our daughter to have 2 too. We like vintage/cute/unique names.

  • @Luonteva
    @Luonteva 5 днів тому

    I love your important rants 💕

  • @shashamarie4760
    @shashamarie4760 5 днів тому

    How long did it take your uterus to go septic? I am on 2.5 weeks from my miscarriage. It is not passing. My surgery is scheduled in one week. A little worried. Please help

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla 4 дні тому

      I’d call your doctor especially if you have any signs of infection. Call them and they’ll tell you the signs

    • @shashamarie4760
      @shashamarie4760 4 дні тому

      @heyshayla thank you for replying. I saw her Friday. She said baby still there and everything fine. I'm just not sure how quickly things can change. I'm wondering if I'd know....?

  • @TefiNoise
    @TefiNoise 6 днів тому

    <3 <3 <3

  • @skylerstemper4627
    @skylerstemper4627 7 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this! My friend is having a baby in December and I've never really had friends who have had kids yet and I've never had a kid myself so I wasn't sure what to do I know that I should probably do stuff for her since everyone focuses on the baby so much but this really helped!

  • @kayla0810
    @kayla0810 7 днів тому

    22 month old and 2 month old over here- every single word of this was SO RELATABLE. Thank you for being honest and real.

  • @patriarchywife
    @patriarchywife 7 днів тому

    You look FANTASTIC!!!!

  • @xenjagraf-rey7221
    @xenjagraf-rey7221 7 днів тому

    I have just miscarried at 12 weeks yesterday after having had one at 6 weeks right before this last pregnancy and am wondering if you&Seth got labs done to check for potential causes after your 2nd miscarriage. I hear you said you took a break after the second and waited half a year to start trying again. I'm not even really asking you if you'd recommend that because I know I need that on every level. Curious if you did anything to promote fertility before you started trying again. This will become my second child, I have an exquisite 3 year old sunshine who is my main medicine right now and the light of my life. Yesterday I snuggled him in bed and he all of the sudden got really sad, and when I asked why he said "I'm not gonna be a big brother". He had already named the baby, kissed the belly, and gotten really excited to have a sibling. I know it will happen for us, I just really feel like I need to cover all my bases medically speaking before entering another pregnancy, this one was already very stressful after the most recent loss. Spiritually I know this soul is coming to incarnate into our family, and to have gotten to host her in my womb twice already for however short time feels like a pure blessing. My heart is broken and my body recovering from a birth, yet in place of my healthy baby there is the deepest sadness I have ever felt in this life. Thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for sharing your story here, and the most delighted congratulations to your beautiful baby boy!❤❤❤ Your contribution here makes a huge difference for people like myself🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @louisajones1108
    @louisajones1108 8 днів тому

    I genuinely think that they'll be whole therapy sessions devoted to adults not knowing whether their parents did nice things with them when they were kids because they loved them or because they wanted likes and followers. Part of a simple life for us is low social media use.

  • @eddylhdl2688
    @eddylhdl2688 8 днів тому

    Going through a really tough moment with my gf. Basically hates me and wants to end the relationship and our baby has been here for only a month. It’s good to hear these tips bc I don’t want our relationship to end. It’s been a really rough day

  • @madisoncorona5040
    @madisoncorona5040 9 днів тому

    ❤️ thanks for this.

  • @Cbelly1981
    @Cbelly1981 10 днів тому

    Im miscarrying now at 13 weeks. I’m praying for all who have been through this.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla 9 днів тому

      Prayers coming back at you. And we’re all holding you though it ❤️

    • @shashamarie4760
      @shashamarie4760 5 днів тому

      I was 9 weeks when I found out. I would now be 11. My surgery is next week. I'm so sorry you're going through this too.

  • @gaonamiguel2
    @gaonamiguel2 10 днів тому

    Hi Shayla - is this evidence-based advice? Could you please share your qualifications? I would like to know what your advice is based on. If it's based on your experience only that's more than fine, but I think it should be made clear.

    • @heyshayla
      @heyshayla 10 днів тому

      Yep just my experience!